Sportsheets EmEx S Gray Fit Boxer Harness

This is a boxer-style harness designed to be worn like underwear and used with compatible dildos and small bullet vibrators. It’s made from soft, stretchy fabric so it feels comfortable under clothes and can be worn day-to-day. What sets it apart is the built-in, stable 38.1mm O-ring and two integrated pockets for bullet vibrators — one over the pubic area and one near the intimate zone — plus an elasticated waistband that keeps the assembly firmly in place.

Details

How to use

Slip the harness on like boxer briefs and position the O-ring where you want the toy to sit. The 38.1mm O-ring accepts most dildos with a shaft diameter up to roughly 38mm (about 1.5 inches); anything thicker won’t pass through the ring. Pop small bullet vibrators into the two pockets to add vibration around the pubic and intimate areas — the pockets keep bullets in place for movement and everyday wear. If your dildo is silicone, use a water-based lubricant on the toy; the harness fabric does not react with common lubes, but water-based is safest for silicone toys.

Care of the fabric

The fabric blend is soft and elastic but treat it like delicate underwear: hand wash or use a gentle machine cycle in a laundry bag with cold water, and air dry flat. Avoid bleach and tumble drying to preserve the elastic fibres and the nitrile ring. Remove any batteries or electronic bullets before washing, and store the harness in the supplied travel pouch to keep it dust-free between uses.

Who it’s for: anyone wanting a discreet, comfortable harness that works well under clothing and supports small bullets as well as a single compatible dildo. Who it’s not for: people who need a harness for large-diameter toys, heavy pegging force or rigid, full leather/strap harness preferences — this is soft textile-based and prioritises comfort and discretion over extreme load-bearing.

For someone who wants a comfortable, boxer-style harness that holds a dildo and small bullets for discreet, everyday use.