Girls can be quite unpredictable. Some absolutely love using what I call erotic toys, which include vibrators, dildos, lollipops, rabbits, and even men's toys. Others wouldn't touch anything from this wide selection, no matter how high their hormones are running.
As men, we never really know if a woman is using a toy just for fun or to fill a void because she's afraid of finding a quality partner.
That said, ladies, we need your help. But first, for you to help us, it's absolutely necessary to be honest with yourselves so we can get an honest answer from you. Without that, we'll remain as clueless as ever.
What is this help?
Men need to know, upfront, about the use or non-use of erotic toys. Men need to know if you're the type of person who wouldn't touch a sex toy even if you were paid a billion euros. Men also need to know if you're the kind of girl who enjoys all sorts of toys. Lastly, men need to know if you're the type of girl who incorporates these erotic toys into the relationship.
Unless, of course, you're the type of girl who uses sex toys to completely avoid emotional ties with others. If that's the case, please just let any suitor know in advance so neither of you wastes the other's time. It's not fair for someone to pursue you if they're only going to find a closed door because you want nothing to do with it.
For the rest of you, you should know that men need honesty. I know, you're thinking most men can't handle the truth. I'll be the first to admit that there are, indeed, some men who couldn't handle your little secret. However, a good and confident man will have absolutely no problem knowing about your little escapades with an erotic toy. In fact, a good and confident man will actually value that knowledge. It might even give him ideas to help you use your constant companions to enhance the sensations of your joint adventures. I'm quite sure it wouldn't be a bad or unpleasant idea.
He might even embrace the excitement. He could enjoy the way a toy explores your softness. He might delight in watching you reach ecstasy. This could give him ideas to go even beyond what you've discovered on your own. After all, even if you just use sex toys to give yourself a bit of quick relief, in most cases, the purpose is to explore yourself more and learn what makes you tick.
So don't be afraid to break the taboo and bring this matter to your lover. Just let him know that you want to be honest and that you greatly value transparency and honesty, and this will lead you both to an adventure together. You never know... you might embark on some shared experiences that will take you far beyond anything you've discovered on your own!