Guide to Male ToysThis is a very basic article covering how to get started with male masturbators. It's all based on personal experience, but I believe it will be very interesting information for everyone. If you're a man and have at least some interest in the benefits of sexual toys for men, this guide will help you choose the right toy for you. Here are what I believe to be the 5 basic factors for any male sexual toy.
  1. Price. This is probably the first factor we notice, and for most people, the factor that deters them before they have the chance to explore further. The price varies widely, but it's also a good indication of the relationship with the other factors.
  2. Quality. This is by far the most varied factor. Sexual toys aren't very openly marketed, and a dissatisfied customer struggles to find a "money-back guarantee" on something as personal as a sexual toy. The motto *all sales are final* is an attitude that makes it very difficult for people to dive into the world of adult toys. Consider this: over 5 million people have purchased Fleshlights worldwide. 5 million people have turned 70 euros into a soft hole in a plastic box. At first glance, it might seem a bit ridiculous, but it all leads to the next factor.
  3. Efficacy. "God blessed us with two heads but only enough blood to think with one at a time." The buildup or anticipation of orgasm can sometimes be greater than the actual sensation of orgasm, but if something can achieve this effectively, the price can be easily justified. Just look at Tenga, Fleshlight, and especially Meiki: they charge between €50 to €400 for sexual toys, and all are highly successful companies worldwide. This is because the quality and efficacy outweigh the price for most consumers.
  4. Longevity / Durability. There are plenty of male masturbators for less than 10 euros. The quality is good, the price is almost negligible compared to the aforementioned toys, and you'll still be able to reach orgasm. Why aren't these toys the main sexual toy? The main reason is the durability factor. Most of these cheaper sexual toys (especially Onahole toys) are single-use. Spending 10-15 € on what can basically be done by hand seems a bit ridiculous, but all these factors vary in importance from person to person.
  5. Cleaning. Last but not least, for some people, this factor can make or break a sexual toy. As I mentioned before, each factor varies in importance; some people prefer to have a less luxurious sexual toy if it cuts cleaning time in half. Personally, cleaning time has become simple, so it doesn't bother me much. It's important to note that all toys require some cleaning time to keep them in good condition.
My personal order of importance is Quality > Price > Longevity / Durability > Efficacy > Cleaning. Before considering anything, I focus on the product's quality. After trying a wide variety of sexual toys, I've realized that cheaper toys aren't worth the time, money, or effort. They usually end up in the trash before their lifespan expires. If I see something well-made and within my price range, it becomes a serious consideration. Then I look at how long the device should last with proper care. If it passes these 3 tests and I have genuine interest in it, I'll purchase the product. Efficacy and cleaning are pretty standard for most toys, so I don't weigh these factors heavily.